An open letter to anyone who cares about me

November 1, 2016

I need to get to work.

I have my very first practitioner training workshop which I’m delivering solo coming up this weekend, and I’ve got lots left to do, but this morning I’m feeling so overwhelmed with sadness that I can’t concentrate or focus on anything.

And I know from experience, strong emotions need to be let out, and writing them down is the best way to release them. But I can’t just journal out my feelings and put them away; there’s some part of me that needs to believe that there’s a sliver of a chance that the people I’m writing about might see this and want to make things better, so I’m doing this publicly. And, if they choose, they can pretend they never saw this, and things can just go on the way they always have, but I’ll know I’ve done as much as I’m comfortable doing.

Why here? Why not. While I try to keep my posts strictly professional, I figure it’s my blog and and if you find this particular post to be a self-indulgent pity party, then please skip to another post. I promise, they’re not all like this.

A little background: I’ve been involved in energy work for the past few years, but it’s been my sole focus for one year now. Before that I was a dietitian, a scientist, and a hard-core atheist I was respected by my peers for being very intelligent and logical, and their opinion meant a lot to me. I thought energy work was utter nonsense and wouldn’t have given it the time of day. Most of my friends thought the same.

But then things changed. I learned. I experienced. I was shown incredible things in the world of energy that my scientist-mind wanted to understand. I wanted to explain the unexplainable. I studied. I researched. I did case study after case study after case study. I’ve spent literally thousands of hours discovering the rules of the energy world, because there are indeed rules. Blood, sweat, and tears have gone into putting together something, the likes of which I don’t think has ever been seen. Granted, from my limited experience, maybe there is something just as amazing out there, but for someone who, only a few short years ago didn’t believe in souls, or a universal energy, or anything out there that was bigger than ourselves, I feel like this is knowledge that could revolutionize the world.

The list of amazing things I’ve seen could go on for pages, but here are just a few:

  • A little girl who had intolerances to dairy, gluten, sugar, nuts, food colouring, strawberries and a whole host of other foods left my office and ate ice cream without any problem.
  • A friend with a horrible fear of heights worked with me one evening and the next day went up, and stood on the glass floor of, the CN Tower.
  • A woman came to my office, unable to turn her neck for weeks because of the pain, left my office an hour and a half later pain-free.
  • A young woman nervous about speaking in public, after a couple of sessions, was completely at ease in teaching yoga classes.
  • A young man did a 20 minute demo with me and discovered that the aggressive feelings he had been experiencing during his volleyball games had suddenly disappeared.
  • Another woman, who smoked a pack and a half of cigarettes daily (that’s 45 cigarettes, or one every 15 minutes, for those keeping count), within three sessions, completely kicked the habit.
So why am I a miserable ball of tears today? Because yesterday my husband was perfect. I mentioned how many of my friends were as skeptical of energy work as I was, and my husband was included. I’m not going to lie…this last year has been rough. He didn’t like what I was doing. He tolerated it because he loves me, but he begged me not to do it. He was afraid that I was going to wake up one day and discover how foolish and wrong I’ve been and he’d have to pick up the pieces after I crashed and burned. And I had to forge on, stubbornly, relying completely on faith that he would come around, despite his assurances to me that he *never* would.

In April my business partnership fell apart, so now I had nobody I could really count on, and I felt really, really, alone.

But I’m stubborn (I’m a Taurus for anyone who follows astrology), so I dug in my heels and kept going.

And I learned even more. And I grew. And the modality got better and better, so now I’m changing the name to the Accelerated Release Technique (ART) and this weekend I’m teaching it to four eager young people who see in it the same potential that I do.

And somewhere in the last few weeks my husband, begrudgingly, allowed me to show him ART and he couldn’t deny that it had an impact. That after a couple of hours with me, things that had been troubling him for weeks weren’t bothering him anymore. Somehow I had managed to actually convince him that I wasn’t a walking placebo, that you didn’t have to believe in what I did for it to work. That it does actively trigger changes. And I spent a couple weeks in complete disbelief, wary when he’d ask me about my day or about clients I’d seen.

And yesterday he was perfect. He knew how much pressure I’m under this week so when I disappeared, caught up in some work after starting to get dinner ready, he didn’t call me to remind me, and instead he just took over. He took care of getting the kids out for Halloween and shelling out candy at the door. He offered to help me any way he could. He gave me support when I was convinced I had none.

So why does this make me sad? Because now that I’ve had a taste, I want more. I have a few friends who believe in what I do, but I see none of them regularly. The ones I do see regularly are the ones who think I’ve drunk the Kool-Aid. The ones who used to respect me for my intelligence and analytical mind, now think I’ve walked off the deep end. But we’re still friends. We still hang out and play games together, talk about politics and world events. Do you have any idea how much it hurts to go around the group, hearing how everyone is doing, each of us asking about the other’s work, and NOBODY asks me about my life or work? Am I that embarrassing to them? Or are they afraid they’ll hurt my feelings because they don’t believe what I believe? Or worse, do they think that if they ask me questions that I’ll be ill-equipped to answer them? That because I now have a completely different world view than they do, that my IQ had to have dropped by 100 points?

I may not be a dietitian or an atheist anymore, but I’m still a scientist. I didn’t change my views without a landslide of proof. I’d much rather be challenged on my views, given the opportunity to share my new understanding with the people I care most about, and prove that I’m still the same person I’ve always been. I’m a big girl. I can take it. It’s way better than sitting in silence and feeling judged, without any idea of what you’re actually thinking about me.

There. I’ve said it. And now that I can read this whole post without any fresh tears, it means that it is out of my system and I can get back to changing the world.

Will anything change? I don’t know, but I think so. The interesting thing about this work is that by getting feelings out, we release the triggers that have created them. My friends might never see this and never ask me about my work, but deep down, I know that that was my problem, not theirs. Nobody is responsible for my own feelings but me. I know I’m supported – I do have friends, family, a new soon-to-be practitioner network, and you, who have read this to the end – so if those other friends are not ready to embrace what I do, then it is truly their loss.

Signing off with a lighter heart,
Renu

By Renu Arora August 26, 2025
The Move That Broke Me (Literally) For the past several weeks (months!) I have been in the process of moving houses. OMG! The longer you live in one place, the more “stuff” piles up. I quickly discovered that purging under a deadline is exhausting! My advice? Do yourself a huge favor: let go of anything you haven’t used in years. Clearing clutter isn’t just good for your home, you'll feel emotionally lighter, too. Decluttering aside, after a big day of moving furniture and all the other heavy or bulky things that required a truck, every muscle in my body was sore. My back, legs, arms—even my wrist—were screaming in pain. Climbing one flight of stairs felt like scaling the CN Tower. I felt completely wrecked. At an emotional low, everything I tried took me 3-4 times as long as normal. Moving through life at half speed, I was really not myself. This was 3 weeks ago. I expected at least a few days of soreness, but weeks later the pain persisted. I hate popping pills, but I was taking BOTH Tylenol and ibuprofen every morning just to get through the day. Yikes! The Line Between Physical Healing and Spiritual Healing You might be wondering: If I’m an energy healer, why didn’t I just “fix” myself? Here’s the truth: physical injuries need physical time to heal. Muscles, ligaments, bones—they don't heal in an instant. The physical body is relatively fragile, and needs care to keep it in working order. That said, it is truly remarkable in its ability to heal. I’ve always said that if broken bones are able to knit themselves together in 6 weeks, there is really nothing in the body that should take over 3 months to heal. But when pain lingers beyond the normal healing window, it’s often tied to something deeper: an emotional or spiritual block. So, if healing doesn’t happen in that time, one should then look to a spiritual cause either preventing healing from taking place, or more often, preventing the pain from going away, even through the body itself may already be healed sufficiently to be pain free. When my pain stayed intense after two weeks, I knew there was more to it than just overworked muscles. The Subconscious Connection: Feeling “Old” Working with the subconscious means everything is symbolic. In my case, the pain and fatigue I was feeling was accompanied by a single thought: “I feel old.” That thought immediately made me think of my mother, who recently turned 93! She had just broken her calf while traveling—right in the middle of my move! While I took out time to help prepare her house so she could recover at home, with everything else going on, I felt guilty that I wasn’t doing more. Like I'm a bad daughter for prioritizing my own life ahead of my mother's. And my own pain was only exacerbating my inability to do anything about it. Healing With ART (Accelerated Release Technique) Once I recognized the feelings at the root of my issue, I used my own Accelerated Release Technique (ART) to release the guilt and shame that I had been carrying. While there was a little more to it, after about an hour of ART, the mental fatigue disappeared completely and my physical pain drastically improved. Thank heavens! While my wrist is still tender, that's on me. There has still been lifting and schlepping stuff from my old home to my new one, and this past weekend was spent setting up my son’s new space for his next few years at university in Waterloo (hence more lifting and schlepping!) so I likely have a physical injury that hasn't been given a chance to heal. The rest of me, however, feels like my old - young - self! I can run up stairs, bend, and move freely once again without pain. Yay! Why This Matters for You Pain does not have to be part of aging. The subconscious mind holds powerful keys to healing emotional pain, physical discomfort, and spiritual blocks. Once you release the hidden beliefs and emotions weighing you down, your body and mind can return to their natural state: healthy, whole, and free. I believe it is everyone’s divine right to be healthy, happy, whole, and abundant. And with knowledge of ART, you can take your healing in your own hands. Ready to Assert YOUR Divine Right to Live Your Best Life? Registration for my next ART Masterclass is now open! Pay your $250 deposit to enroll by September 1st, 2025 (midnight EST) and get the two prerequisite courses FREE: How Heal From Your Past ($199 + HST) Connecting to Your Subconscious Without Hypnosis ($19.95 + HST) Spaces are limited—secure your spot today! Join with a friend and you’ll BOTH receive $150 off the Masterclass. 👉 👉👉 Click here to register for the Masterclass 👈👈👈 Have questions? Send me a message — I’d love to hear from you! I hope to see you in class!
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